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Sunday, 2 February 2014
Valentine's Day questions Part II
9:What's the most important part of a relationship? Trust, respect and just that special "thing"
10:Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings? Serious
16:Do you believe in "love at first sight"? Yes I do actually.
17:Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet? Of course. Sometimes it's the only way people can really communicate and really build that trust until they're comfortable. In the least creepy way possibly
18:What do you consider a deal breaker? Breaking trust, cheating, someone trying to be someone they're not
19:How do you know it's time to end a relationship? If it reaches a point where you can't see a good future ahead for the both of you.
24:Do you think love can last forever? True love does
25:Do you believe love can conquer all things? If it doesn't, then it's not love.
26:Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of? Never.
28:Do you think long distance relationships can work? Yes
29:What do you notice first about another person? How kind their face is. Then I'll be curious whether they have a heart to match.
30:Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual? I'm pretty sure I'm straight but wouldn't be surprised if I turned out bi.
31:Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness? I don't think so. If they're my partner, I fell in love knowing that they had that illness.
33:Do you want to get married one day? I do. I love the idea of a wedding. But I also don't mind just being with someone and not getting married.
34:What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed? Never a good idea. Symbols are better.
35:Could you be in a relationship without sex? I think so.
37:What's more important: Looks or personality? Personality. The more you get to know someone and the more you like their personality, they become more attractive.
38:Do you enjoy love films? I enjoy all films
41:What's your imagination of a "perfect date"? Nothing crazy. Something relaxing and simple yet still memorable. But more because of us two being together rather than what we did.
43:What's more important: Your partner or your friends? Neither parties should ever make you choose.If they did, they don't deserve to be chosen. But in the end, partner.
44:Would you consider yourself "romantic"? I like to
45:Could you imagine to date one of your current friends? Indeed.
46:Have you ever been "friendzoned"? My default position is friend. As in, I never expect to be relationship-zoned.
50:If you're single, why do you think you are? It's not really a choice or like I'm being forced to be single. It's just the way that things are right now.
52:Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships? I'm always weary when "giving advice". More than anything, I actually make sure everyone knows what my opinion is rather than tell them what they should do.
53:Are you jealous of couples when you're single? I'm jealous at the IDEA of a relationship but not OF people in a relationship
54:How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)? Not really. If you're together, then you're together. And if you both know where you both stand clearly, then it's all ok.
55:Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"? I don't think so? If I had to choose out of those three I probably would choose overly attached.
57:Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart? The concept of suicide is never silly. This is a shit question. People sometimes can't handle difficult situations because they have no support or because of how the heart was broken. Sometimes people can be overdramatic, but it's never ok to write off every single person who has contemplated suicide after a break up as silly. Fuck anyone who does. Their own feelings are just that. THEIR OWN. It doesn't need to be justified or validated. That doesn't mean I think it's ok for people to commit suicide over a broken heart or that it's ok for suicide, period. Just the term "silly" makes me angry in this case
58:Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship? Both. Different on occasions.
60:What's your opinion on open relationships? As long as everyone agrees and are happy, go for it.
63:Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate? If they both want to do it, then hey! have fun.
62:How do you define "cheating"? Purposely and knowingly flirting or hooking up with someone who is not your partner. If you really believe it's friendly texting and you spend time with someone who isn't me, that's not cheating. If you blow me off for someone and just do or say things with them that you'd usually do with only me, that is cheating. Having friends of the same and/or opposite sex does not make you a cheater. Being a dickhead douchebag does.
64:Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated? A litte bit. Only because of how much emphasis it puts on how society thinks you HAVE to have a Valentines or else you're just a lonely loser and don't deserve chocolates and flowers. Fuck that. But it is a lovely kind of thing for just people to celebrate love.
65:Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"? Fuck. I'm a cuddler when I'm not in a relationship.